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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-10 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2200 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2200 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Vanessa Ferlito]


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[Iron Man]


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[The Tudors]


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[Kuroko no Basuke]


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[The Iron Giant]


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[Ace Attorney]


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[American Horror Story Asylum]


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Notes:

Going to pull a few secrets from the first page of next week's post to fill tomorrow's.

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 009 secrets from Secret Submission Post #314.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
What I have to say is not going to be what you want to hear, but I can't in good conscience let it pass.

A few years ago I was living in a flat below a couple. I frequently heard them arguing, and eventually came to realise that they were violent towards each other. I was at one point asked if I had set the police on them, but I hadn't and thought little of the question.

Then on one particular occasion I heard them fight and smash things, then a thud, then silence. Actng on instinct I called the police from my landline.

Huge mistake. Despite my saying I was too scared to give my address, the police traced it to my flat and came knocking. I didn't answer, but it was seen, and the cops then moved on to try to find my neighbour. Upshot of this is that I ended up in hospital.

So please, OP be careful for yourself as well. Avoid doing anything that might make the partner aware of your involvement, this will protect both you and the victim. I'm sorry I can't be of more help.

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I'll be careful.
I don't think he saw me, he was downstairs and outside when the cops came, but I'll be careful in the future.

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Forgot to mention: that's also why I didn't and won't put pamphlets about help for abuse victims in their letterbox or anything like that. It'd probably make things worse if he saw them before her.

I hope you're okay as well and that you've recovered!

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
You sound like you have your head screwed on, I'm glad to hear you're looking out for yourself as well.

I agree about the pamphlets thing, it's just asking for trouble.

And yes, I am fine now, thank you :-)