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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-10 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2200 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2200 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Vanessa Ferlito]


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[Iron Man]


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[The Tudors]


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[Kuroko no Basuke]


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[The Iron Giant]


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[Ace Attorney]


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[American Horror Story Asylum]


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Notes:

Going to pull a few secrets from the first page of next week's post to fill tomorrow's.

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 009 secrets from Secret Submission Post #314.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, the thing you have to remember here as that staying is her choice. So, trying to do anything beyond what you're doing would probably have a negative effect, since it sounds like she's not even admitting to herself what's going on. Until she reaches out for help, no one can force help on her.

Also, this might come off a little harsh but...it sounds like, in some ways, you're making this about you. ['I feel so helpless', etc] It might help to remember that it *isn't*, and that you're doing as much as you can.

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Really? I don't want to make this about me, sorry if I came off that way...

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Naw, it's fine - it's a tough situation.

But seriously, the only thing you can do right now it keep up what you've been doing, anything else has a fair chance at making it worse.

Re: TW domestic violence

(Anonymous) 2013-01-11 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I will.