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fandomsecrets2013-01-12 02:39 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-01-12 02:39 pm
[ SECRET POST #2202 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2202 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Sorry, early today!
Also: I'm not going to officially warn for tongue-in-cheek "triggers" just to provide anyone with a fandom-specific in-joke when there are none in the secret.
Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 140 secrets from Secret Submission Post #315.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2013-01-13 01:16 am (UTC)(link)And to be perfectly honest, the seed of this feeling was probably planted when I was a young girl and listened to the Tori Amos song "Mother," in which she sings, "He's gonna change my name," in a panicked whisper. It was sort of an OH SHIT moment for me -- I had never considered that before.
I don't like my surname, either, because no one can ever pronounce or spell it, and I've considered changing it to something simpler, but I am so, so resistant to the idea of changing it to a husband's surname and then, what, becoming subsumed into his family? No! That freaks me out. This is my name, my name is the label of who I am....I am [my first name] [my last name] -- [my first name] [some other last name] is some other person, not me.
Sorry, I have a lot of feelings about this, I guess. :/
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Carry on.