[ SECRET POST #2202 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2202 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Sorry, early today!

Also: I'm not going to officially warn for tongue-in-cheek "triggers" just to provide anyone with a fandom-specific in-joke when there are none in the secret.

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 140 secrets from Secret Submission Post #315.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: It's my birthday/tl;dr rant

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe you've drifted apart, and your friend feels obligated to try to keep the friendship alive but her heart isn't fully into it, or she's just moved on too much. It's not fair that you're not on the same wavelength regarding what you want out of the friendship, though.

As for the suicidal thoughts, if it's an option for you, please talk to a therapist/psychologist/counselor? It seems like it's all linked together, and someone with some experience with this sort of thing should know what advice to give you to help you find some peace, and tell you if you have to do certain things to fix all this.

As it is, I have no idea what advice to give you beyond: have a serious talk with your friends (especially the one that you talked more about here), to find out what your friends want out of this relationship.

It seems that you want a deeper sort of relationship than they do, and it's not fair for you to have to settle for BFF who aren't on the same wavelength than you are. So, have a heart to heart, find out if they're willing or even interested in making an effort to make the kind of relationship you want, and if they don't, then accept that it simply won't work and try to find new friends, and either let the relationship with your current BFFs die (as a huge blow out might not help matters at all and burning bridges is generally not a good idea) or accept that they're good acquaintances, but not your BFFs any more. Someone else out there's bound to want the same type of friendship you seek. You really never know.

Re: It's my birthday/tl;dr rant

[(Anonymous)]

same anon

also, happy birthday! c: