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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-12 02:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2202 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2202 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Sorry, early today!

Also: I'm not going to officially warn for tongue-in-cheek "triggers" just to provide anyone with a fandom-specific in-joke when there are none in the secret.

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 140 secrets from Secret Submission Post #315.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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elialshadowpine: ([grey's anatomy] callie and arizona)

Re: Party in the Closet

[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2013-01-13 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
You and me both, hon. I'm pansexual, married to a male-bodied genderqueer (as he identifies), and I cannot count the amount of shit that I get for "passing privilege", nevermind the "well you're just barsexual" crap, even though I've had more relationships with women than men. With one exception (and even he said that if he cared enough he probably would ID as genderqueer but he didn't want to deal with the *phobia) everyone I have been with has been cis female, trans female, or genderqueer. Yet... passing privilege. And thus I need to STFU, I'm not queer enough, I don't belong. I am attracted to women, I just don't care about body. (And there's a good bit of transphobia involved there too.)

It is seriously fucked up that I am more comfortable around straight people because I have literally had better luck explaining to them. Even the ones that are biphobic. I have certainly dealt with some awful crap from straight people but it has been pretty standard religious crap and not ~queerer than though.