[ SECRET POST #2207 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2207 ⌋

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Small Vent

[deenaa]

My parents kicked me out of the house a couple of weeks ago. (I'm okay, found a great place to stay and I'll survive comfortably on my income.) I really am going to be better off living in a place where people are not constantly taking out their anger on me and then implying I have mental problems for getting upset about it. They'll probably be better off without me, because I know I've not been perfect and have done some shitty things in the last year myself. We'll still probably meet and get together and everything.

But at the same time, even though this is objectively better for everyone, I'm still upset. I'm happy, but I'm also really sad. I guess that's probably normal, but it doesn't feel any less shitty.

I don't know. I guess it'll pass eventually, but for now it really hurts.

Re: Small Vent

[elaminator]

:(

I'm sorry that happened to you, but I'm glad you have a place to stay and are in a situation where you should be able to afford to keep it in the future. Idk exactly what your home situation was like, but it sounds like it was uncomfortable and that you might be better off living apart from your parents. I guess you could always try to find a roommate if the place is big enough, and if you feel lonely?

It's perfectly understandable for you to be upset in this situation, and I hope you and your parents make up in the future. :/ (And that they realize they aren't treating you fairly.)

Re: Small Vent

[nan]

It's only a good thing that you've separated from your parents. Maybe y'all's relationship can heal a little by living in different homes, spending some time apart.

And yeah, I think this is a normal feeling. Even for people who have moved out by choice, I think feeling a bit of sadness is normal (I'm moving out soon and while I'm super excited about it, I also feel sad and, well, guilty).

Hugs if you want them. :3

Re: Small Vent

[(Anonymous)]

hey, that's what venting is for

it sounds like a fairly reasonable and normal reaction; your life did change drastically, after all

I'm so, so echoing the relief at you being in a good situation, too

Re: Small Vent

[iceyred]

You have every right to be upset. It's normal to feel hurt and angry in that situation. People who are supposed to love and support you threw you out. That's not good for anybody, but it's good that you realize it's for the best.

I've found that talking/writing about my problems sometimes helps. Maybe talking to a professional therapist would be useful?

Re: Small Vent

[lunabee34]

*hugs hugs*

I hope time will help you feel better.

Re: Small Vent

[bombay]

As somebody else who was kicked out of his house for the better, I totally get you on this. Yes, being away from my parents fixed a lot of issues I was having, but it's still a punch in the gut. You get all this bullshit from media that parents "truly love" their kids and whatnot, and you're sitting there having had the rug pulled out from under you by them, and...it's really fucking shitty.

It's taken me a while, but six years after the fact, I've made peace with the fact that my mother is a controlling bitch with more issues than Playboy, and it's much better for my peace of mind that we're no longer on speaking terms. The shittiness will pass eventually, especially if everything is going much better by being out from under their roof. Work through it in any way that helps, but try not to dwell on it.

Good luck <3

Re: Small Vent

[(Anonymous)]

*hugs*
best of luck to you, I hope you enjoy living on your own.