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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-17 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2207 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2207 ⌋

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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: +1

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-18 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, did they really say things like that though???

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-18 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Different anon, but I've dealt with similar attitudes from various dudes. I think the most blatantly it's been laid out to me is that Western women are great as friend/fuckbuddies, but Asain women are better wives because they're modest and obedient and don't expect to be treated as the equals of men.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-18 04:25 pm (UTC)(link)
That is just......

I mean part of it is I can't believe people would be so blatant in saying that. I hope the men who want/think they want a perfect, obedient, submissive wife never get married (or get married to someone who isn't like that, and learn better).

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-18 08:42 am (UTC)(link)
They really did! I had one co-worker in particular who talked about sexual things, but in my experience socially awkward guys can be painfully transparent about their underlying insecurities/prejudices.
diet_poison: (Default)

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-18 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean insecurity is one thing though. But to actually, consciously expect a subservient and submissive wife? *barf*

And a lot of people are socially awkward for various reasons, so I don't think there's a definite connection there. But maybe for some that is true.