[ SECRET POST #2209 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2208 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I drunkenly admitted to my friend the other day that I had a crush on her boyfriend. I went back today to apologize and she was all "I don't mind, I know you'd never do anything." I mean, she's right, and I'm glad she trusts me, but...she's not even the least little bit paranoid? Have I been watching too many teen dramas, or is this as unusual as I think it is? It's not like we've been friends forever or anything, I've only known her about half a year...

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe it's not so much that she trusts you, but because A) a crush doesn't make you an asshole, and B) she wouldn't have trouble cutting you off as a friend if you did try something, because she's not super-attached to you in the first place. Only her boyfriend giving you the time of day would be a problem.

[(Anonymous)]

I really want to believe that she cares about me enough to at least be upset if she had to cut me out...:( But you could be right. And I'm used to being more attached to people than they are to me, so it wouldn't exactly be unusual.

I did fail to mention that her boyfriend is one of my best friends -- in fact, if it weren't for him, I'd never have met her. The three of us hang out together far more than I see either of them alone. I don't know if that changes anything.

[(Anonymous)]

Well, it'd be 50% trusting you and 50% trusting her boyfriend so I'd say she's pretty good at picking her friends if she's got nothing to worry about :)

I had a similar situation with a friend when I was worried they'd be angry/paranoid that I hung out with their boyfriend (his suggestion, we have very similar interests) while she were away. She basically loled at me and was happy we were getting along and knows I wouldn't try to steal the guy or anything. I was confused, but so so relieved! I'd spent the whole time with him secondguessing it.

[chardmonster]

For the record, if you flat out tell her about the crush how would you be a threat?

Hell, she might be flattered.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, you've been watching too many teen dramas. A mature secure relationship can handle shit like this. Because she trusts you and she trusts her boyfriend, which is awesome and a really good statement about her relationship (and her relationship with you).

[(Anonymous)]

Like others said: she trusts you and her boyfriend. This is a good and mature thing!

Also, like chardmonster said: You admitted it to her instead of trying to make a move on him. She's probably reassured that you value her friendship more than pursuing your crush. c: