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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2212 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2212 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-23 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I don't think I'm asexual (though my mother does have a theory that our entire family suffers from low libido which...would make a lot of sense, actually) and I do have male friends who avoid movies and shows if there aren't any sufficiently hot ladies present, but, yes, I absolutely have a gut judgy reaction when people refuse to watch something that would otherwise be exactly their cup of tea solely because there's no one bangable in it.

Similarly, I don't get why people watch terrible movies, ones that don't interest them at all, because their favorite actor is in them. I have my crushes, but if the plot sounds snoozy, it doesn't matter who's attached to it - favorite actors, writers, directors - I won't watch, not unless someone whose judgment I trust says I will love it. Even then, I'd still be skeptical. I'm in my mid-forties; I have a pretty good instincts about these things at this point.

That said, the rational part of my brain usually kicks in when I start to judging. We're all different. Even when we're watching the same things, reading the same things, our enjoyment comes from very different aspects and angles. I don't have to understand other people's reasoning; I just need to let them have their fun and hopefully they'll let me have mine, too.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-23 06:34 am (UTC)(link)
This is a good comment!