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fandomsecrets2013-01-22 06:44 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-01-22 06:44 pm
[ SECRET POST #2212 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2212 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #316.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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I do not believe in the concept of soulmates; there are more than 6 billion people on this planet. I think I could probably make a successful go of it with at least a solid 100,000 of them.
I think that love is (thank you DC Talk via my fundamentalist Baptist upbringing) a verb. It's less a feeling that you have all the time than a conscious choice that you make. That roller-coaster ride feeling in the pit of your stomach that you get when you first meet someone and you wonder, "Is she gonna call?" or when your heart flip-flops when his hand brushes yours? That feeling isn't sustainable over time. It blares hot and fast (and periodically, sometimes for the most random reasons, it will return), and then it fades into something I find infinitely more satisfying and enduring--mutual trust and a bone deep knowing that surpasses any kind of infatuation.
My husband and I will be married 12 years this spring; we'll have been together 15 years total this fall. We started dating when I was 19. I've spent my entire adult life with him, and while I don't think we were fated to be together, I can't imagine sharing myself with anyone else the way I've shared myself with him.
I don't know what I think about the afterlife, OP, but if there is one, I hope my husband and I find each other there.
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