case: ([ Zell; BWUH. ])
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-08-30 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #237 ]


⌈ Secret Post #237 ⌋

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Notes:

Have some more random bite links! Devilbats. ♥

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(Anonymous) 2007-08-31 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say that people try to be ugly or something, and I actually believe that even if you weren't given the best base to work with, there's always something you can do. And even if you're like, "Whatever, that's shallow, I want people who like me for me," it doesn't change the fact that appearance is important, not just to how you feel, but to how people around you react to you.

The secret is that in real-life, I don't have very good self-esteem, because when I look in the mirror, all I can see are my flaws. But then I go online and take a peek at girls in fandom, and I just feel better, because so many girls in fandom refuse to take care of themselves. Women that don't wash their hair regularly, women who wear ill-fitting clothing or too much unflattering makeup -- it's kind of ridiculous.

Just because you weren't born beautiful doesn't mean you have to give up on yourself.