[ SECRET POST #2217 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2217 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Early because sick, sorry.

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 097 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
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Comments

[diet_poison]

Look, you're preaching to the choir. I've had some bad experiences in relationships and I can be clingy. I have to watch out for myself. I've been suddenly, without warning, completely ignored by guys who told me they cared about me about five times between three different guys. That is way more of an "excuse" to be clingy than "this person I knew online left LiveJournal". And I still know it's annoying and unhealthy to be clingy. It's something I have to be conscious about. I'm not saying OP doesn't have the right to be upset or hurt, but there really isn't a reason why OP can't send their friend an email. In all likelihood their friend leaving LJ wasn't about *them*.

Friend leaving LJ is NOT "actions that seem to state they don't care [about OP]". Sorry, but that one's on you. That simply is not what that means.

From my perspective? if I (and I have been tempted to do this from sheer frustration) made a Facebook status about how hurt I was and how selfish and immature it is for a guy who said he loved me to randomly walk out of my life with no reason or no warning, that would be passive aggressive of me. There's no way around it. This secret is passive-aggressive and maybe it's because I get this vibe of "OP is trying to get friend back by making them feel guilty about leaving LJ". And on the internet we should be free to go where we please without other people taking it personally or thinking it's all about them. I know I hardly ever spend time on LJ anymore but that doesn't mean I don't care about my friends there. I've had other friends on LJ fade away and stop using their journals and I never once thought it was all about me.