[ SECRET POST #2218 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2218 ⌋

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Comments

[fscom]

09. http://25.media.tumblr.com/1e50c0b14aa63dc2a872ad80185e1b9d/tumblr_mh7mcuw7rM1reoixno1_500.jpg

[northerndownpour]

i'd say give it a shot, OP. this sounds a lot like how my girlfriend & i were before we got together.

if you want to talk about it you can message me on this account or something? or just talk here obvs

[(Anonymous)]

I know this is a really late response, but she and i just had a really good heart-to-heart over skype, and it basically came down to the fact that we really could be more to each other (and would be open to it), but we live so far apart.

And so now we both know how the other feels, but nothing's changed. I don't know how to deal with this.

[visp]

Keep in touch with her, and see if you can't move the connection to facebook, where you could get more "real-life" connection to her.

[lunabee34]

Is it possible for you to meet and see if the way you feel extends to RL?

If it's not possible for you to spend time together in RL, a relationship might not be feasible no matter how you feel. I realize some people have very meaningful virtual relationships, but most people want to spend at least some time with their SOs in meat space.

[(Anonymous)]

I had a friend like that, that I called my wife and everything. We even told each other if we were in the same state we would date. Then she started seeing a more local friend of hers, and her new gf was uncomfortable with how close we were to each other.

We didn't talk hardly at all for two years because of that. It hurt like hell. We are talking again, very irregularly. I miss her. I miss my wife. Her friendship alone was exquisite to have, and agonizing to lose. She and her gf have been together for a long time now. And I've gotten to know her gf a little. She's great, she really is. I don't know if that makes it hurt less or not.

[silverr]

It really doesn't have to be "in love" though. Best friends often have an intensity of connection that can surpass what one feels for one's romantic/sexual partners.

Still, call it what you will, and enjoy every moment of it. Friendships like that are rare, and you are blessed.

[(Anonymous)]

This.

I'm in a very intense friendship with someone online, and even though I love her to death, I'm not 'in love' with her. But I would do anything for her.

[turloughs]

Sigh I'm in the same boat as you OP. My friend has literally been through everything with me (I'm transgender) and we have never met irl and sadly she lives across the country, we say we're husband and wife and we're very close, I do think I'm in love with her. I hope you get to keep and extend that relationship.