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fandomsecrets2013-01-29 06:39 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-01-29 06:39 pm
[ SECRET POST #2219 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2219 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Oofuri]
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[Adventure Time]
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[How I Met Your Mother]
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[Gangnam Style/PSY]
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[Arthur Conan Doyle]
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[Sherlock]
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[Richard Armitage]
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[Bioshock 1&2, Heavy Rain, Silent Hill 1&3, Alias, Taken 1&2, Once Upon A Time]
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[Lizzie Bennet Diaries]
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[Steam Powered Giraffe]
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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]
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[Ghost World/Safety Not Guaranteed]
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[Patalliro]
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[Bones]
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[Hetalia]
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[Dynasty Warriors]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Relationship advice :(
I've always been very honest about this from the get-go. There have been people who thought I wasn't serious. There have been guys who have been put off by this right in the courting phase and left, and honestly: good riddance.
I can't tell you what to do, but...
I honestly couldn't be in a relationship with someone who's following the "life script". It's not fair on them, but also not fair on yourself. You have just s much right to pursue the life YOU want as they do.
Sometimes people change their minds, but you can't really count on it. If you're just happy hanging out, that's fine. But you really should get this stuff sorted out before cohabiting. Owning property together will really complicate a breakup.
Kids is usually something people feel strongly about. I do not want to deprive anyone of having them, but I won't be popping out any when I don't want them, either.
I feel like there's a few dealbreakers in relationships, things you can't compromise on. I think kids is one of them. Only you can decide if you want to break up, of course, but if this relationship is going to fail over this it will hurt more later than now, because you'll have invested so much more into the relationship.
Re: Relationship advice :(
(Anonymous) 2013-01-30 01:02 am (UTC)(link)