[ SECRET POST #2219 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2219 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Oofuri]


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03.
[Adventure Time]


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04.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Gangnam Style/PSY]


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[Arthur Conan Doyle]


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[Sherlock]


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[Richard Armitage]


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[Bioshock 1&2, Heavy Rain, Silent Hill 1&3, Alias, Taken 1&2, Once Upon A Time]


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[Lizzie Bennet Diaries]


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[Steam Powered Giraffe]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Ghost World/Safety Not Guaranteed]


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[Patalliro]


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[Bones]


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16.
[Hetalia]


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[Dynasty Warriors]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Relationship advice :(

[deenaa]

Neither of you should be expected to cave or settle - while every relationship has compromise, that doesn't mean that large, life changing decisions should be thrust onto you (or him) just because you don't think you'll be happy elsewhere.

Communication is key here. You need to sit down with him and talk about all this future stuff, and see if you can't find a common middle ground. For example, you could eventually move in together but in a way where you have a separate room/study for downtime.

However, if you can't find such an equilibrium at all, and you know it'll cause serious drama and heartbreak in the future, then yes, consider how important this relationship is to you. Is it worth having children you may not want, or a loss of privacy that you're just not comfortable with?

Either way, don't settle. You'll just end up resenting yourself and him for it, and then everyone will be unhappy.