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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-29 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2219 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2219 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Oofuri]


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03.
[Adventure Time]


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[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Gangnam Style/PSY]


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[Arthur Conan Doyle]


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[Sherlock]


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[Richard Armitage]


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[Bioshock 1&2, Heavy Rain, Silent Hill 1&3, Alias, Taken 1&2, Once Upon A Time]


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[Lizzie Bennet Diaries]


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[Steam Powered Giraffe]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Ghost World/Safety Not Guaranteed]


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[Patalliro]


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[Bones]


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[Hetalia]


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[Dynasty Warriors]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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Re: Relationship advice :(

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-01-30 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Your boyfriend has an endgame. He looks at you and presumably sees the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with. And he wants to get on that. Which to him, means living together.

It sounds like you've been together some time, so it's not some delusional sort being all weird about it to soon, but rather you and him having very different wants. The life you see for yourself just isn't compatible with his vision.

I think that could ultimately lead to the both of you being unsatisfied and frustrated. Eventually, he will likely become more insistent about it as you grow older and he sees his window slipping away. Then it could go sour.

While things are still largely positive, I'd sit down and lay out how it is right now. Before the drama occurs. Hopefully you can find a path both of you are happy with. If not, you can end it now and both of you can ideally find people that fit better with what you want.

I'm sure you care for each other very much. But in and of itself that doesn't mean it will work.