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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-29 06:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2219 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2219 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Oofuri]


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[Adventure Time]


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[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Gangnam Style/PSY]


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[Arthur Conan Doyle]


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[Sherlock]


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[Richard Armitage]


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[Bioshock 1&2, Heavy Rain, Silent Hill 1&3, Alias, Taken 1&2, Once Upon A Time]


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[Lizzie Bennet Diaries]


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[Steam Powered Giraffe]


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[Buffy the Vampire Slayer]


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[Ghost World/Safety Not Guaranteed]


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[Patalliro]


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[Bones]


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[Hetalia]


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[Dynasty Warriors]


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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 060 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
kallanda_lee: (Beautiful Maizu)

Re: Relationship advice :(

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-01-30 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
Your original comment was problematic because it invalidates relationships that do not have the goal of cohabiting/marrying/having kids. It implies that you can only be committed to your partner if you follow a certain path.

I agree OP and her partner might not be a good fit based on the info we have. However I find the whole concept of needing to "take a relationship to another level" deeply flawed; because it implies that there are indeed "levels" and that a relationship needs to follow a certain course to be good, genuine or committed. This of course is nonsense, and there have been great love stories lived by people who did none of the above.
Edited 2013-01-30 02:56 (UTC)

Re: Relationship advice :(

(Anonymous) 2013-01-30 09:24 am (UTC)(link)
But...relationships do have levels, though. That's not to say they're levels on a *path to the top* or whatever. But a relationship is different between people who have just started dating and people who have been dating for years and people who want to live together or get married.