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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-30 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2220 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2220 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sherlock, The Hobbit, Doctor Who]


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[Hotel Transylvania]


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[Skyfall]


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[Love Actually]


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[The Walking Dead]


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[Small Wonder]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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[Downton Abbey]


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[Magi]


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[Homestuck]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 042 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: desperate for advice

(Anonymous) 2013-01-31 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I've been in situations like that and it sucks. People who act like this guy is acting are usually not the kind of people who can take a hint and will act like you are the worst bitch in the world if you bluntly say "go away."

I think you should try talking to your friends first and letting them know that this guy is making you uncomfortable. Hopefully you can get them in your corner before you actually say anything to the guy.

If anyone tries to make you explain why you're not into him, just say "I don't need a reason." Really - attraction is an "either you feel it or you don't" kind of thing and you don't have to give supporting evidence for your feelings.

As for the guy, perhaps you could approaching it something like "I'm getting worried that maybe you think I'm leading you on and I wanted to say, that wasn't my intention and I just want to be clear that I'm not interested in hanging out with you. I'm sorry if I mislead you." (I'm not saying you mislead him at all, but I think it might help if you act like you're taking the blame.)