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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-30 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2220 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2220 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sherlock, The Hobbit, Doctor Who]


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[Hotel Transylvania]


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[Skyfall]


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[Love Actually]


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[The Walking Dead]


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[Small Wonder]


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[Star Trek: Deep Space Nine]


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[Downton Abbey]


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[Magi]


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[Homestuck]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 042 secrets from Secret Submission Post #317.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
charming_stranger: Himemiya Anthy from Adolescence of Utena. (Default)

Re: desperate for advice

[personal profile] charming_stranger 2013-01-31 02:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon, I'm sorry, that seems really annoying and stressful for you. Remember you do not owe him anything but normal politeness, and even that is only true as long as he's polite to you. You don't owe him attraction, attention beyond what common courtesy demands, and definitely not a date. If he asks you out, you're absolutely not wrong to say no, and if your friends think they have more of a say in your love life than you do, then they, frankly, need to shut up.

Captain Awkward gets a lot of questions like this one. I think you might find this particular reader letter, and especially the answer, really useful: hhttp://captainawkward.com/2012/05/08/242-can-i-tell-guys-i-dont-want-to-date-them-before-they-ask-me-to-date-them/

Good luck, Anon, and remember: you haven't done anything wrong.