[ SECRET POST #2222 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2222 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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16. [SPOILERS for Celeste & Jesse Forever]



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17. [SPOILERS for Superior Spider-Man, Scarlet Spider]



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19. [WARNING for incest]

[A Tale of Two Sisters]


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: How not to hurt someone?

[(Anonymous)]

The weird thing is that I've already told him this, after I made the first move. I was really clear and honest about it all because I thought a clean cut was easier for him. It's just, this time, he wasn't really asking for a relationship. He was just telling me his feelings about me, in a ridiculously nice and makes-you-feel-special kind of way. He even said that he knows I don't feel the same way about him. What do you say to that, really? "Thanks for making me not hate myself for once but sorry I can't love you that way" is just... shit.

Re: How not to hurt someone?

[intrigueing]

I think you *can* say that, maybe not in such blunt words, but there's nothing wrong with saying that if it's the truth. Just tell him your feelings aren't romantic, and you can't really make them romantic, but you care about him as a friend and appreciate the things he said. It won't magically make everything fine of course, these things take time to get over, but it'll draw a clear line in the sand and if he knows for sure you don't have romantic feelings for him but you also don't hate or resent him, that's the best way for him to start getting over it.

Romantic feelings aren't fundamentally better than platonic feelings. I know that'll sound hollow in a situation like this, but it's better than misleading him and yourself. You shouldn't feel like you owe him romantic feelings because he said such nice things to you. If you appreciate what he said, that's really all you can do and there's nothing wrong with that.