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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-04 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2225 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-02-05 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
so does NOT make you weird! a lot of people can't stand the thought of being alone and use relationships/sexual partners as a measure of themselves - you don't do this so i'd say you're on top
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[personal profile] el_regrs 2013-02-05 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
but who's on the bottom???? ;D

(Anonymous) 2013-02-05 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
everyone else!

MTE

(Anonymous) 2013-02-05 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
I think you hit the nail on the head, there.

I can never understand how some people can get into new relationships, one after the other, so quickly. This isn't some kind of slut-shaming thing - I literally do not understand how they get all these opportunities so fast. I'm jealous. It takes me forever to find someone, and when that goes bust, it takes me another forever to find someone new.

I can only assume there's a lot of throwing-themselves-at-people-they're-not-even-really-all-that-interested-in going on. That and waiting to get out of an obviously doomed relationship until the opportunity to start a new one right away comes along.

Re: MTE

(Anonymous) 2013-02-05 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel the same way as you anon, and eventually I asked a couple of those serial monogamist friends. Turned out that in fact they just said yes to whoever asked them out, as they literally couldn't bear the thought of being alone. One of them felt terribly ashamed if she was single for more than a couple of weeks. Also they weren't happy and didn't even care that much for their partners, but having one was more important, being single was too shameful and scary.

Thing is, I don't want to be single, and I don't feel I'm fussy/picky, but I simply can't force myself to even go on a date with someone I don't find attractive/don't really like. I've tried and it's awful. I'd rather watch the telly. (Yes hence single no doubt. )