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fandomsecrets2013-02-04 06:41 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-02-04 06:41 pm
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It's perfectly fine not to desire sex/a relationship/marriage whatever.
But I also think so many people make it out to be so much bigger than it is.
It's like the whole mentality of waiting for Mr./Ms. Right and the perfect moment that sort of rubs me the wrong way. It might never be perfect - but that doesn't mean it can't be worth it.
I have two friends who are basically 30-year old virgins because they have made sex into this larger-than-life intimidating thing.
I say this specifically because of your choice of picture - I think in a lot of sex ed people are really scared into not having sex, or are tricked into thinking it's the huge deal while really, it doesn't have to be.
So while if you genuinely do not desire a relationship - by all means, don't get pressured into it. But don't feel like you need to avoid it until that magical golden opportunity, either.