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⌈ Secret Post #2229 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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05. http://i.imgur.com/Xs4i0UB.jpg
[sort of porny, real person]

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06. http://oi47.tinypic.com/zk216r.jpg
[sort of porny, maybe? Jennifer's Body]

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[Ripper Street]

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[Warhammer 40k]

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17. [SPOILERS for American Horror Story]

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18. [SPOILERS for My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]

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19. [SPOILERS for The Office]

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20. [WARNING for rape, abuse]

[OP marked this as "no warnings" but there's bound to be triggery discussion in the thread]

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I honestly can't tell if you are trolling or not. You think it is a bad thing that your friends don't stereotype gay people or...? I mean, is it such a horrible thing that your friends don't think to themselves, "She wears plaid she must totally be gay!!!"

I know, right? I know there's more to the comment, but I'm still back here on the idea of your sexuality being irrevocably tied to the clothes you wear.

I was being a little facetious with the plaid part. I don't see how it would be stereotyping to think "wow she talks about attractive girls a lot and wanting to have sex with girls so maybe she's not 100% straight"? That sounds like a pretty reasonable conclusion in my opinion.

A lot of people talk about crushes on girls and how attractive other girls are. This is nothing special. Sexuality is so fluid and changing, only you would know about yourself best. How you expect anyone else to make blind assumptions based on stereotypes is beyond me. You should just tell people outright if it's so important to you that people always know about it.

Yeah I thought this person was trolling after the ex-boyfriend bit. If you're so into girls then why did you have a boyfriend?

Eh, because they thought they "had" to have a boyfriend? Society expected them too? They didn't realize how much they liked girls, until they had a boyfriend? The guy asked, and they agreed to be polite?

Out of everything, I honestly didn't think that that was trolling.

Well, she did say 90% gay, not 100% gay.

Are you serious? Did you miss the "90% gay" part? It's called bisexuality, genius.

Then why do you expect people to know all this about you? Most people are not very knowledgeable of bisexuality. I know, I'm a straight girl who dated a bisexual guy once and I got to learn quite a bit about it. My mother kept insisting that there was no such thing as bisexuality and that it didn't make sense.

No offense, but I think it's unreasonable to expect and then get mad when the average joe doesn't understand this concept. I grew up with gay friends and so meeting my then boyfriend, I was surprised when he told me on our first date, but I accepted it for what it is. You should be upfront about this next time you date a guy or girl. People can't read minds. If you're so open and comfortable with your sexuality then you should tell people you might get into relationships with that you are bi.

DA

Wow, you really like the rock you live under, don't you?

No, I just think it's fairly close minded to assume that everyone thinks the way you do. I already said, most people are ignorant of bisexuality. I had heard about it, but never gave it much though prior to dating my boyfriend because it wasn't relevant to my interests. Was I ignorant? Sure. Did I hate bisexual people because of my ignorance? No. But dating him opened up my world a little bit. But it was because he was calm and confident about his sexuality. He said I could ask him any questions I wanted about it and he wouldn't be offended. We ended up having a really great conversation that night and I ended up dating him for 2 months.

I think that the OP is bullshitting about being confident in their sexuality. Confident people wouldn't get mad or frustrated, they would just state it simply to people that they are bi, not making a fuss about it. It is unfortunate, but understandable that OP's boyfriend was shocked. I never would have known my bf was bi and what his preferences were (i.e. how many guys he dated, what he was into, etc.) if he hadn't told me. And we were cool after that.

FYI OP: If you want people to be less ignorant then you should educate them in a non-confrontational way. Just tell people and whatever happens, happens. Don't be afraid of how people will react.

op said she's about 90% into girls

don't see how having a boyfriend suddenly nullifies that?

Not the OP

Did you see the "90 %" part?

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