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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-09 02:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2230 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
The WTF is that he's hitting on you are a LGBT counselling centre, right? Like, he has the smidgeon of a chance but that's a really inappropriate place to hit on someone?

I get you there :< Some people have no idea when to shut up.

That said, I (a lesbian) once had guys hit on me in a gay bar. They were very persistent about it even though I kept saying no and waving them off in increasinly not-friendly ways. I even explained to them this is a gay bar incase they were lost tourists or something, but nope. Keep on hitting on me and trying to grind their male body parts up on me an dance with me.
W T F man. NO. Fuck OFF you CREEPY fuckers.
They pretty much ruined my night out. I was so angry. I wanted to dance with girls, not have manly parts thrust against me


(and the next day my straight friends it wasn't a big deal and I should expect it when I go out? what?! straight friend no. If I say no the guy should fuck off

and they can't work out why I don't go clubbing with them anymore. It always ends up with guys hitting on me. NOT fun)

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 06:24 am (UTC)(link)
your friends sound like jerks

also, if this -let's hope not- happens again, maybe complain to the bouncer or manager or whomever is in charge?

(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 11:09 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think they're intentionally being jerks, but they can be pretty fucking dumb at times. Like how I don't want to be hit on by guys and they just can't wrap their mind around it even though they know I'm gay. Like a little mental roadblock.

I want to shake them.

Hah I just don't go out clubbing with them anymore. I'll do nearly anything but clubbing/bars/involving alcohol+dance because they're utter idiots when they've been drinking

(and don't seem to get that if I say NO it's a NO, rather than advising it's okay for guys to be like that? nooooooooo how is a guy ignoring my no not a big deal? then apparently it's embarassing for them if a guy makes a pass at me and I turn it down and they have to explain to the dude??? like...am I meant to roll with the guy wanting to kiss me? it's weird, I don't want to kiss a guy so I'm not going to. ffffffffffffffff)

yes, not going out with my straight friends is a good idea for me. They're missing...something, some point, some connection. I've got a nice flock of fellow lesbians and gay men (finally) happening and we'll all go out together instead haha.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-02-10 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Well also the idea that you should want just any random guy to kiss you even if you're straight is pretty fucked up. I mean if you did want that that's one thing but if you say "no" you shouldn't have to give any reason. That's just gross.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-02-10 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
This straight girl thinks you were absolutely right to be creeped out. :|