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fandomsecrets2013-02-09 02:34 pm
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Yeah, the thing is, I genuinely don't understand how people can think like that. My parents are abusive as well, especially my mother, but they gave me food and shelter and paid for my education. That's at least one thing I have to repay them for, if nothing else.
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(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 11:28 am (UTC)(link)Likewise, when you decide to have a child, you take on certain responsibilities. Amongst them is feeding, clothing, sheltering your kid and yes, giving them the best shot at the life they want that is within your means. Because you had them without fucking asking.
So no, you don't have to repay anything. If you want to, that's awesome. It's admirable and gracious. But don't pretend people owe their parents anything, because they fucking don't.
(That said, I love my parents despite the fucked up life they set me up for, and I pretty much intend to care for them. But there's no debt there.)
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(Anonymous) 2013-02-10 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)You might feel grateful, but you're not obligated to. No child is obligated to do something for their parents.
That said, if you had good parents, and you can't even be bothered to care for them, you are a bad person. You're not obligated to, no, but you're still a bad person.