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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-11 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2232 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Looking at the reactions here, I feel some people don't get the culture of anon memes. Going into an anon meme to defend someone, especially when the dogpiling collective has already made up their mind that this person is bad doesn't do any good. In fact, it just makes shit worse. Every argument just gets shot down as white-knighting, half of the time they twist it into something along the lines of 'the only person who would defend this person is the person themselves, so look they are defending themselves, lets get them even harder'. If you wanna help someone, talk to them in person, offer them support. But keep your shit off anon-memes. At best you'll be useless, at worst, you'll just make it even harder on them.

greenvelvetcake: (angua)

[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2013-02-12 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
Or you'll make them feel like they're not entirely alone.

Who'd even want to be a part of a meme like that? Sounds like a shithole.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
da

ikr

op, ditch the anon meme, befriend the cool person and be awesome bffs, fuck the haters
kittenmommy: (Default)

[personal profile] kittenmommy 2013-02-12 02:30 am (UTC)(link)

I think this is some of the best advice I've seen in this thread.

SA

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Which is why I said to talk to them in person. I don't think the op is exactly obligated to return the person's kindness, though it would be very nice, but I just feel like if they really want to, it'll be better to drop a them a personal line than to go into a toxic environment where they run the very real risk of having their kind comment backfire.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
Oh shut up.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
+1 - you're welcome to try it, OP, but that sort of thing usually just leads to accusations that you're butthurt and/or secretly the person you're trying to defend. It's at best a pointless exercise and you'd be better off using that time and effort being friendly and supportive to Actually Nice Fan instead, especially if she doesn't know about the bashing in the first place.
wauwy: (fire and blood)

[personal profile] wauwy 2013-02-12 10:36 am (UTC)(link)
There are ways to effectively protect someone on an anon meme, or someone being attacked anywhere online. The best and easiest way is to pretend you don't care either way but to make inflammatory and challenging comments that deflect and channel all the anger to you. Unanonymous you. Anon memes are easily distracted, especially by a shinier target.

But I think that might be asking a little much of OP here.
Edited 2013-02-12 10:36 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Alternatively, poop-troll that meme until people are freaking out about how omg you posted 75 threads that said only poop, how dare you, think of the tracking nonnies, what the fuck!!! They will all totally forget whoever they were hating on three seconds ago.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-13 07:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I like this idea!