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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-11 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2232 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2232 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 070 secrets from Secret Submission Post #319.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
My friend is queer like me but she has had the fortune of finding multiple partners to sleep with. While I'm still a gay virgin at 25. I'm a stupid gay man who gets these petty jealousy fits that people 5 years younger than me have more game. Yes I know this is petty and ridiculous to get envy over this, but it's a gut reaction. :/

I still love her as my friend and give her high fives every time she scores. Because really I WISH I was in her position, and she really deserves it because she's an awesome girl. But sometimes I can't help and be like I have shitty luck in finding where the gay men are at. Like do I need OK Cupid or what.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:20 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe you could try to figure out what your friend is doing to "get game" - is she going to particular bars or hangouts? Is she meeting people through a network of friends or gay organisations?

I would only recommend OK Cupid as a last resort. I've heard far too many horror stories of what lurks beneath its murky depths.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
I'm in a sort of similar position. I've had to put up this facade of having experience, and read enough out there to hold my ground so it looked believable. I only put on this persona because in college most peers find it laughable if you're a virgin. But then I met this girl I'm dating, and she's got so much more experience than me. Funny thing is she came off as a bit naive and not really interested in sex, but when she opened up more to me she told me her history and it blew me away. She had experience with men and women, while I had only my books. I still could fake a bit that I had experience, but she's my first for everything. And it's kind of killing me that I can't even tell her or even how bad I feel that I wish I had her experience so I could give her a better time. :/

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever stopped to consider that you're probably just really fucking unattractive and unpleasant to be around? That'll make anyone not want to fuck you.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
Y'know, I'm sure that thought had occurred to him. Don't be a dick, anon.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know this person. You don't know this person. For all we both know, OP is a narcissistic jackass who doesn't see his own personality flaws. Also, for all we know he looks like a cave troll and doesn't floss.
I'm not saying it's certain, I'm just saying it's a strong possibility.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah but he also might not be and you're being a dick on purpose.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 04:59 am (UTC)(link)
By not telling him what a poor widdle homo he is? Come on. Not getting laid is the epitome of first world problems.

Re: Non-fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Now you're just blatantly trolling. OP mentioned in the first sentence that they found their behavior wrong. You on the other hand have major issues.