case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-11 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2232 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2232 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.


__________________________________________________



13.


__________________________________________________



14. [broken link]


__________________________________________________



15.


__________________________________________________



16.


__________________________________________________















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 070 secrets from Secret Submission Post #319.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
except they're not friends and...just because someone can be a potential friend doesn't mean they HAVE to make friends with them.

that leads into the creepy "this person did something nice for you so you HAVE to become friends" and you start tallying up who did what for who as friendship was a barter trade system

OP isn't obligated. it'd be NICE if the OP said or did something, but the anon didn't have to help OP out or do those things for OP and OP doesn't have to do anything nice back

wauwy: (Default)

[personal profile] wauwy 2013-02-12 09:58 am (UTC)(link)
rme, OP clearly knows what the right thing to do is, but is too cowardly to do it, and feels ashamed about it. So no.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-12 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with you, also I've just left a comment to this effect but whilst giving lifts etc is a nice gesture, it doesn't make for a nice person, I've learnt that more than once. Also I think I'm a nice person, but I would give a lift to someone who needed it even if I loathed them, I just don't see the connection really, offering a lift is a basic thing to do, can't have people stuck somewhere, no matter what I think of them.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-13 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
If you can't even tell the truth about someone who loaned you money, you really have no business taking their money. That pretty much puts you in the "user category IMO.

Nobody is saying the two have to become besties, or OP has to whiteknight her all the time. But just saying "I've met her, and she seemed really nice to me." is just telling the honest to god truth.