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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-12 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2233 ]


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Re: I'm afraid that if I move out, my mum will be depressed...

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-02-13 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds like your mother and father need relationship counseling if she feels he is neglecting her emotionally or socially, and that's a problem between the two of them that doesn't have anything to do with you. You're a grown woman and can't take the place of your father as far as companionship goes. The only thing I could think of to do is to sit down with your mother and explain that you want to move out, and the reasons why, which are all valid reasons -- make sure that you stress that none of them have anything to do with her (even if you're lying a little because I'm sure she might be getting on your nerves) Also make sure to sympathize with her loneliness (I have to ask though, does she have any friends?) Maybe find an activity that you and your mother can do once or twice a week, even better in a setting with other people, to give her an avenue to meet people and make other friends? Certainly she understands that if you move out you will be able to visit every once in awhile (I would try to visit her at least once a week after you move just so she won't freak the fuck out, IDK)