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fandomsecrets2013-02-12 06:38 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-02-12 06:38 pm
[ SECRET POST #2233 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2233 ⌋
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Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 054 secrets from Secret Submission Post #319.
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Re: I'm afraid that if I move out, my mum will be depressed...
You moving out could potentially even turn out to be good for her. As was said upthread, your place will be a new place for her to visit away from the house. And seeing you in a new context where your life isn't defined by your dad's demands might help her get up the motivation to make some changes herself.
As it is, it sounds like all three of you are stuck in a holding pattern, and that's not going to magically change by itself.
Re: I'm afraid that if I move out, my mum will be depressed...
Hope things work out, your mom is okay, and your parents get some help. :(
In the meantime, maybe you should suggest a hobby for your mom in addition to visiting you at your new place? She wouldn't have to go through with it of course, but if she could find something fun to do or someplace nice to go maybe she wouldn't be as unhappy and bored.
Re: I'm afraid that if I move out, my mum will be depressed...
And not only can she use your place as a get away spot, but you can meet up by doing other activities together as well. Find a local production company and see a play, find a nature trail and do a hike, go to a mall and do a bunch of window shopping... sometimes just a breath of fresh air and some change can do wonders.