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⌈ Secret Post #2236 ⌋

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[Inda series]

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[Les Miserables and Discworld]

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[Three Kingdoms 2010, Legend of Chu and Han]

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[DBSK]

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[The Elder Scrolls IV: Oblivion (Shivering Isles)]

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09. [SPOILERS for ]

[Umineko no Naku Koro Ni]

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10. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]

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11. [WARNING for rape]

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12. [possible warning for sexual assault (as I'm sure the thread will contain discussion of it)]

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13. [WARNING for abuse]

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14. [WARNING for rape, abuse, etc]

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15. [WARNING for suicide]

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16. [WARNING for eating disorders]

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17. [WARNING for rape/non-con]

[Homestuck]

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I had chronic pain and illness for a couple years, and it certainly didn't kill my sex drive.

I would imagine they're not putting a huge amount of thought into it, but they're not wrong per se.

It's a continuum and you're at one end, but that doesn't mean there aren't people at the other.

OP. I dunno, man. While I definitely, definitely get that there are people who still have a sex drive while hurt and incapacitated, I'm still guessing there's a biological level where your body would shut that off in favor of survival.

Like if you have broken bones, severe puncture wounds or blunt trauma, stuff like that.

But hey, I would be really interested in knowing if there really are people who maintain a sex drive while having all of that.

I've had everything from kidney stones (the pain of which is considered to be the most painful that either sex can experience--I've heard some women say passing a kidney stone was more painful than childbirth--oh, I'm female too if that matters just never had a kid) to heart surgery for SVT. And, yeah, no sex, no libido, either. It's a crock.

The thing about adrenalin is that you may have some energy when it's there but when it goes, you're exhausted, cranky, and want to sleep.

I just roll my eyes at those fics. I did enjoy this Clint/Tony segment in a fic where Tony did start giving Clint a handjob in order to counteract some of the pain Clint was in while they were waiting on pick up and medical aid for Clint. Sex does give some pain relief since it releases endorphins like a runner's high.

[ SECRET POST #2236 ]

Re: Pain, exhaustion, and sex.

Re: Pain, exhaustion, and sex.

Re: Pain, exhaustion, and sex.