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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-18 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2239 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2239 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Elementary]


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03.
[Pokemon]


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04.
[Noah, Power Rangers MegaForce]


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05.
[Mass Effect]


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06.
[Resident Evil]


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07.
[Medaka Box]


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08.
[Shameless]


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09.
[Star Trek 2009]


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10.
[Dreamwork's Sinbad, Avengers, American Gods, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic
Batman, Gunnerkrigg Court, Grim Adventures, Trickster's Choice/Queen]


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11.
[American Dad]


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12.
[Laurell K. Hamilton]


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13.
[my neighbour totoro]


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14.
[Medaka Box]


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15.
[Downton Abbey]


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16.
[The Red Panda, Black Jack Justice]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 080 secrets from Secret Submission Post #320.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
My first reaction to a suicide (even attempted one) is anger, which is horrible because everyone has right to do what they want with their lives. How can I judge someone when I don't know anything about their situantion, their past experience?
charming_stranger: Himemiya Anthy from Adolescence of Utena. (Default)

TW: suicide

[personal profile] charming_stranger 2013-02-19 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
Well, the last thing they did while alive was to kill someone.

I realize it might sound like I'm trolling, but I'm serious. Think about it. A person losing their life isn't the only tragic thing when someone dies - they usually leave a bunch of people behind to grieve. Plus, someone has to take care of the body, make funeral arrangements, etc. Not a very nice thing to do to other people if you can avoid it.

On a slightly ... softer? note, anger is a common grief reaction. Something you (general) care about has been taken from you, and the loss hurts. No wonder if you get angry if it's somone you know/knew.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 07:35 am (UTC)(link)
I'm exactly the same - I think suicide is such a selfish action
- and I know that makes me lacking in compassion and empathy and I dislike that about myself, but I hate it and I get angry and have no sympathy for the individual.

I think in part it's linked to the fact that in my life and my job role I have people who threaten suicide for attention and drama and who use it to try and get their way - ie one "friend" who tells his parents he's going to kill himself and then doesn't answer their calls for days and who has told me "heh! it's funny!".

In my job I see the fallout from suicide and it does make me mad.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 07:37 pm (UTC)(link)
to be frank it's because you're being selfish. selfishness is a huge problem in this world. try to put other people's feelings above your own, you might find yourself feeling less angry when other people are being selfish.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
emotions are irrationa

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
*irrational