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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-18 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2239 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2239 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Elementary]


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03.
[Pokemon]


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04.
[Noah, Power Rangers MegaForce]


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05.
[Mass Effect]


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06.
[Resident Evil]


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07.
[Medaka Box]


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08.
[Shameless]


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09.
[Star Trek 2009]


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10.
[Dreamwork's Sinbad, Avengers, American Gods, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic
Batman, Gunnerkrigg Court, Grim Adventures, Trickster's Choice/Queen]


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[American Dad]


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12.
[Laurell K. Hamilton]


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13.
[my neighbour totoro]


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14.
[Medaka Box]


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15.
[Downton Abbey]


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16.
[The Red Panda, Black Jack Justice]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 080 secrets from Secret Submission Post #320.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
Personally I get really upset when people who I consider really thin talk about wanting to be thinner. I know this is my own issue that I have to deal with but just consider other people's feelings too.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
i mean, i understand, and if anybody actually outright asked me to not talk about it because it bothered them, i would respect that. but that has never actually happened. either they just act like a dick and tell me i'm stupid or insane, or they try to lecture me on anorexia, which is just an insult to my intelligence, honestly. especially because these are people who know me and know how healthy i am. anyway, i just think the whole thing is stupid. i just want to be a bit thinner, like in the way that i want to dye my hair because i like the look of it. i don't know, i understand that people get defensive about weight issues, but they don't have to make it like something is *wrong* with me. but that's why it's all a secret now.

anyway. i'm ranting, sorry.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 02:07 am (UTC)(link)
I understand. That is dickish of them. I used to do that until I realized it was making people feel just as awful as they were making me. Now I just try to avoid it altogether. I'd usually scroll past something like this but I guess I felt the need to say stuff.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
well thanks for being reasonable :)

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 06:34 am (UTC)(link)
Saying that you sound like you have the beginnings of an eating disorder is 'insulting your intelligence'? Wow.

Maybe your friends, for whatever ludicrous reason, care enough about you that they're worried when you talk about wanting to be on the edge of underweight even though you're already at a perfectly healthy weight.

Actually, no, you know what, just fuck you in general. Fuck you for acting as though eating disorders are something that only happen to people that are 'less intelligent' than you, and fuck you for your "oh poor me" act because people get sick of hearing you talking about wanting to be thinner when you're already slender.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 09:44 am (UTC)(link)
I think they just meant that the lectures are an insult to their intelligence. People have the tendency to be preachy about other people's health. OP knows about anorexia. Their online friends are not qualified to give a diagnosis. So yeah, it is insulting.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 07:16 pm (UTC)(link)
that is exactly what i meant. obviously i don't think people who have eating disorders are unintelligent. for fuck's sake, i can't even fathom how anybody *could* think that.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-02-19 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry but i'm not going to defend myself against this. you don't know me at all and you're making a lot of incorrect assumptions that you have no right to make.