[ SECRET POST #2239 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2239 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Elementary]


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03.
[Pokemon]


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04.
[Noah, Power Rangers MegaForce]


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05.
[Mass Effect]


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06.
[Resident Evil]


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07.
[Medaka Box]


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08.
[Shameless]


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09.
[Star Trek 2009]


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10.
[Dreamwork's Sinbad, Avengers, American Gods, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic
Batman, Gunnerkrigg Court, Grim Adventures, Trickster's Choice/Queen]


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11.
[American Dad]


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12.
[Laurell K. Hamilton]


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13.
[my neighbour totoro]


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14.
[Medaka Box]


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15.
[Downton Abbey]


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16.
[The Red Panda, Black Jack Justice]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 080 secrets from Secret Submission Post #320.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I'm TERRIBLE at sex. I just started recently with my boyfriend and I can't do handjobs or blowjobs to save my life My hand always gets tired where I can never make him cum and he has to finish himself off. Its the same with blowjobs. His dick made my gag reflex act up really badly and I puked a little. Luckily he didn't notice but I just want to give a decent handjob or head where he cums because of it. I feel even worse because everyone else talks about how easy it is to do these things and make a guy cum. :/

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I'm a virgin, but "everyone" I talk to says they were terrible at first and it took a lot of work. I don't think you should hiding this from him. Maybe together you can find a way to practice being better.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Handjobs - get a stressball or something similar and work up your muscles. I had a similar problem (my arm would get tired before my partner finished), but working at it helps, especially if you can find a position that doesn't put as much strain on your arm.

Blowjobs - it's not like you need to treat it like a popsicle or anything. If you can't work with shoving it straight in, try just stimulating him with your tongue and lips. Like an ice cream cone, if we're sticking with the food simile here.

And remember: practice makes perfect! The more you do it, the better you'll get at it, and if your boyfriend is happy to work with you, all the better!

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[tabaqui]

I gag if i brush my teeth too far back. Deepthroating is *not* the only way to give a blow job.

And hey - maybe he's got issues and is having trouble getting to an orgasm. Or, you're not picking up his cues (or he's not giving you any) about what he likes. Maybe he likes it harder/softer/faster/slower or something and you just don't realize.

Have a talk. Ask him what he likes. Tell him to 'give you a show' and jack off in front of you and watch what he does. Don't worry about deepthroating or even going down very far - puking is not sexy for *anyone*. Ask him to tell you what feels good and what doesn't.

If you can't talk about it, that's half the issue right there.
(And how is he on giving *you* head? Can he make you come? Does he go down on you at all? His 'it's easy' talk is just that -talk.)

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Handjobs are the worst, imo. I used to with previous boyfriends and it's so tiring. Can you use your fingertips more and not pump you arm so hard?

There's a gag reflex trick ( http://lifehacker.com/5858128/shut-off-your-gag-reflex-by-squeezing-your-left-thumb ) I still need to try, but are you taking in too much? See if you can keep to the top half and use your hand on the lower? Take it slowly.

But first, can you talk to him about it? I'd hate to think you were pleasuring him to the point of puking and he's oblivious. :\

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

+1 on using your hand on the lower part while giving a blow job. I don't have the equipment myself, but I'm told it feels just as good to most people who do. My ex certainly never minded.

+2 on "it gets better with time and practice". The first time I gave a blowjob I was terrified, probably because I only did it because I thought my then-boyfriend wanted it (don't do this, people). The second time (several weeks later) *I* wanted to do it, and wow was it a lot better. I think the trick to most sex techniques is to enjoy what you're doing.

+100 on "communicate". I suspect by now this recommendation feels like nagging to you, OP, but seriously: you need to be able to talk to him about these things (you may already be, of course, in which case: great! ^^). And in case he won't talk about it ... that's a really bad sign.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Holy shit, that trick actually worked for me. Weird.