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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-19 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2240 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2240 ⌋

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-02-20 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
Hmm...

I've had (real, diagnosed) depression and for a few years I really leaned on my mom to the point of putting a lot of stress on her and being a total "leech" as some people have said in that relationship. So a word to those who are suffering: try not to do that; it doesn't really help and it hurts people who you care about and who care about you. Yes, lean on the people who love you, but find a network that includes more than one person and GET HELP at the same time. Make it better. It sucks, but you have to do something.

A word to the people who are going on about fakers (by which I specifically mean, people who latch onto this and assume everyone much be faking oh noes): really, shut up. We get it, some people fake for attention. But please don't extend your resentment to include everyone ever who talks about having issues on the internet. Sometimes people really *do* just need a kind ear and if you accuse them of faking right away you are being an asshole.

A word to the actual fakers: stop it. Just stop. You hurt everyone - yourself, the people around you, and people with real issues - by doing this. Own up to your problems with attention-seeking. If you're feeling lonely, look for more positive ways to combat that. If you're bored, find better ways to combat that. But don't make things a bajillion times harder for everyone by lying or exaggerating.

/soapbox

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
I ... yes. All of this. Thank you.
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 12:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, this. Thank you.