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Anyone else feel like you are likely to be alone forever?

In a way, it's sort of my fault. I'm waaay too picky and most people don't interest me in that way, and the things that do attract me to a person aren't considered positive traits, so even someone who does have them would probably have to hide them most of the time and I'd never know (and out of the tiny pool of people I could be attracted to, how many of them would like me)? I think the only way I'd be likely to meet anyone at all is through online dating or something like that.

Even most porn and erotica is unappealing aside from some fan fiction and occasional pictures I can find on Tumblr blogs.

Then there's the fact that I'm already in my twenties and have no experience. I know some people won't mind that, but I think most people my age would be more experienced, and the idea of someone... teaching me, or "leading" me in any way is a huge turn off. Makes me wish I'd had some awkward and bad sex as a teenager just so I wouldn't be a twenty-something virgin.

I've pretty much accepted that fact that I will be a 40yr old vigin (or 70 year old..whatever) and that no one will want me.

Same here.

You're not alone, most definitely about the unexpirenced twenty something angle.

and out of the tiny pool of people I could be attracted to, how many of them would like me

I hate to be that person, but you've got to try I guess? I'm very much like yourself anon, maybe someone can help us both.

Yes probably but let me just say how happy I am that this is a community where you can have a thread start with the words "forever alone" and have the ensuing discussion NOT be primarily concerned with discussion about how all women are whores

inorite

Gaming forums make me fucking despair sometimes.

yeah I think I'm pretty much just done with that shit

esp 4chan, except maybe /tg/

I try to tell myself that they're just horny, lonely teenaged boys whose views on the opposite sex will change as they mature.

But then I look at their user profiles and find out they're 30-fucking-year-old grown-ass men.

It seems fairly likely. I'm not able to let people in close, I'm not willing to make the effort to go out and meet people, and I'm so blah about the whole sex/romance thing it just doesn't seem worth it.

I definitely feel like that's going to be me. Most of the time I don't even mind it, but there are definitely times when I feel like I'm missing out.

I think that's very likely to be me (although I'm only 23) - given my total lack of inexperience, general cowardice, the fact that my habits of life and habits of thought are pretty set, and the fact that I often feel that I don't have too much to offer in a relationship.

It's not the worst thing in the world and I've mostly made my peace with it. There are definitely times when I think companionship and, especially, just physical intimacy would be really nice and times when I desperately feel the lack of them. But I could have it a lot worse and I mostly get by all right. It'd be nice but there's a lot of things that would be nice.

You're pretty much me, right down to the age. o.o I've resigned myself to being alone, and the longer I'm not in a relationship, the more upsides I find. It's not even a problem anymore.

(I do worry for when I hit my forties, though, and I am clearly "a career woman." It's a hard place to be in, socially speaking.)

Please. I'm 42 (not a virgin) and I'm fairly certain I will be alone for the rest of my life. No one wants to love an obese bipolar person with OCD traits.

24 year old here. Virgin, never been kissed all that. Yeah, I just don't get the appeal of romantic relationships. I got my friends and family and that is enough for me. D:

the idea of someone... teaching me, or "leading" me in any way is a huge turn off.

So with you there. I may have more optimism than you (unless we just caught you in one of those moments of despair - I have them, too) and I'm not completely inexperienced, but I think if I was dating someone and they tried to put themselves in the position of my "sexual mentor" I'd dump them on the spot.

I can relate. Oh god I can relate. :(

Most certainly. I'm not looking or particularly care right now, but who knows if I'll always feel this way. I'd like to think if I ever am ready for a relationship I'll have a chance. I don't know if I believe that though.

Yeah, but I actually like this outcome for myself.

I'm getting into a career where having a significant other would be really complicated in terms of balancing my work and social life, as well as being truthful about what I'm doing.

Plus I'm hoping it kills me off before I get old enough to retire and care about being alone.

I have really healthy future expectations, you guys.

ill omened?

No. But closer than you may think. I don't talk about it a whole lot on F!S. Or anywhere, really.

kronos keeper?

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(Anonymous) - 2013-02-21 22:05 (UTC) - Expand

Silly stalker anon.

I fear this outcome because of my glaring personality flaws.

(that's a joke, I definitely see myself ending up in a loveless marriage of convenience)

(Anonymous) - 2013-02-21 21:59 (UTC) - Expand

Yeah, I feel the same way. :( I'm 18 and a virgin, and I went farther with some random dude in college than my boyfriend of 8 months. I started to give him a handjob because I was okay with that, but then he wanted me to blow him, and I wasn't comfortable with that, so he kicked me out.

Both of my roommates have it figured out, though. One of them is super cool with casual hook-ups, and the other is in a long distance relationship. I have no idea what to do. I'm terrible at talking to guys, and I only have the confidence when I'm drunk. :/

I've never actually tried to get into any kind of relationship and don't intend to. If it happens, yay I guess. Hopefully there's some girl out there who's single, mid-20's, likes video games and hanging out on the internet and generally being geeky and that will somehow run into me. As long as I'm pretending, she would be either cool with or actively into furries and interested in trying out role-reversal and stuff like pegging from time to time. *sigh*

Yes.
I barely let friends get close to me.
No way I'm risking more than that.

Meh. I've come to terms with it.

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