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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-21 06:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2242 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2242 ⌋

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Re: Friendships changing

[personal profile] dethtoll 2013-02-21 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I've had many friendships that have fallen by the wayside, not all of them gracefully. Unfortunately I've not mastered the trick to maintaining friendships past a certain point of difference. Worse, sometimes a split just plain is inevitable. I'm not saying this one is likely to result in that, but if things keep going the way you're describing, my only advice to you in that situation is not to end it on bad terms. If it looks like you're developing some irreconcilable differences, instead of letting it build up into a big showdown, carefully and quietly just disengage, and if she says something hurtful or otherwise off-putting, don't be afraid to back away rather than react. Let her go her own way and you go on yours. Maybe in a few years you'll orbit back to each other as you get older and realized, hey, you kind of miss each other.
Edited 2013-02-21 23:49 (UTC)