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fandomsecrets2013-02-21 06:09 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-02-21 06:09 pm
[ SECRET POST #2242 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2242 ⌋
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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #320.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Online dating and junk
The second guy was a super hot nurse (literally) but it turned out he just wanted a one-night stand. I met him twice, once just to get to know him first and secondly to screw him. I didn't really realize that was all he wanted until he didn't text me back but I wasn't upset about it or anything
And then there's the guy I'm currently hanging out with, we're just FWBs but seem to get along pretty well, it's nice to have someone to do stuff with, to hang out with, etc. I met him back in October. I usually sleep over at his place after work at least one night a week since it's not too far from where I work, sometimes we have sex, sometimes we don't. Sex is great. We don't have a ton of things in common besides being nerdy (right now we are watching Evangelion together because he has never seen it), he has pretty crap taste in music which I am trying to change. He is also four years younger than me which is odd, I usually go for older men. I also had sex with him the first day that I met him which was unusual for me (usually I wait until the third date). He's pretty intelligent but kinda high on himself because of it, he likes to read history books so I borrow books from him, vice versa. I guess he's kind of my new best friend? (Since everyone else I know is in Nashville basically?) He reminds me a lot of myself at that age which sounds really weird to say, in the sense that he's always complaining about having no money and working a shitty job that he hates and WILL I EVER GET A REAL JOB WILL ANYONE EVER APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT I GRADUATED FROM MY UNIVERSITY MAGNA CUM LAUDE etc and hasn't gotten used to the real world after college yet, it's pretty endearing
My advice is to just meet these dudes somewhere publicly the first time at least. Someplace you can talk in public is ideal, like a coffee shop or bookstore or something. You can kinda judge your comfort level from there. For me, if I plan to see someone more than once, I don't really feel comfortable until I've been on a few dates with them in public first.
Re: Online dating and junk
(Anonymous) 2013-02-22 05:21 am (UTC)(link)