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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-21 06:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2242 ]


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Re: Friendships changing

(Anonymous) 2013-02-22 03:40 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, my best friend right now. we're still friends but not as close

catch ups ever couples of weeks or so. i'm initiating them less since I'm tired of the one being invested in keeping it going.
especially since she got a boyfriend and distanced herself

and especially after she said something hurtful about my recent medical problems.

so i've scratched a lot of things off our talk list so its real small now and awkward and i think she realised i hurt cause it was awkward next catch up
and then she talks about being lonely all the time but is rarely the one to contact me.

also i have fulltime work and she doesnt and i got a baby animal recently so I can't stay out too late
and all she wants to do is go out and party and hitch me up with girls and I've been telling her for years that's not fun for me.


we have been great friends through familiarity and roomates but now we're growing apart after 13 years friendship...

idk op. i'm pretty sad and confused and lonely
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Re: Friendships changing

[personal profile] silverau 2013-02-22 10:04 am (UTC)(link)
Could it be that she's just feeling awkward too?

You said she's feeling lonely but doesn't try to make plans with you, and also that she realizes you're hurt... it could be that she wants to stay friends but isn't sure how you'll react to just hanging out so she uses the parties as an "excuse" (not the right word, but I can't think of anything else) to hang out with you.

Anyway, I'm sorry. :( I hope things get better.