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I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know why. I suppose because I'm a small woman, and experience has taught me that men are only nice to me when they want sex. I worry that people who aren't sexually interested in me have all this power and no reason not to use it, because my opinion doesn't matter to them.

I realize this is very much a personal problem, but I can't help being terrified anyway.

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

is seeing a therapist an option?

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

this is sad

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

what the fuck?

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[insanenoodlyguy]

I'm curious. Does the internet help or hinder that then? Since it's hard to tell who you are talking to and if they'd ever be attracted to you.

Also does this mean gay men are extra scary?

That sounds like a joke but I don't mean it as such at the moment.

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

The internet helps, because I don't generally find cyber contact threatening in any way. It's pretty much only when I'm interacting directly with someone that it comes up.

And yes, this extends to gay men as well. It doesn't help that a lot of the gay men I know find women not just unattactive but repulsive in every way, and are pretty vile about that. It's just...an issue I have.

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[insanenoodlyguy]

how do you even tell though? Not all guys that are attracted to you are gonna hit on you.

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

How about interacting with women, gay or straight? Does that factor in at all? Or is it purely a male thing?

If you can, I suggest seeking out a therapist.

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

It doesn't matter with women, seems like. I don't think I've ever been uncomfortable around a woman, not in a danger, alarms blaring way.

I'm actually working up the nerve to see a therapist, but I'm not sure how to get my problem across. F!S is sort of my test therapist right now.

ME AM BIZARRO FEMINIST

[chardmonster]

ME AM NOT THREATENED BY LACK OF SEXUAL INTEREST

ME AM NOT BARING BOOBY RIGHT NOW FOR MAKE INTEREST




(Seriously, though: you might want to talk to someone about this. If you're always afraid of guys this could be indicative of a larger problem. Knowing it's going on is the first step!)

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

power to do what, exactly? like, are you afraid you're going to be physically harmed? i'm a bit confused as to what exactly you mean.

Re: I feel threatened by men who aren't sexually interested in me

[(Anonymous)]

What an interesting way of seeing things... here I am, a short woman, afraid of men who have sexual interest in me. Afraid the will hate me for not putting out, or rape me. Huh.