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⌈ Secret Post #2246 ⌋

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[Mighty Morphin Power Rangers]

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[Downton Abbey]

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[Death Note]

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[Star Trek TNG]

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[Girls]

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[Vampire Diaries]

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[My Little Pony: Friendship is magic]

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[Spartacus]

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[CSI]

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[The Bretts]

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[Steam Powered Giraffe]

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[Being Human]

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[The Young Ones]

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[God Bless America]

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[Nerdfighteria]

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[Downton Abbey]

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[Disney's hunchback of Notre dame (Frollo/Esmeralda)/Titanic (Cal/Rose)/Once Upon a Time (Rumpelstiltskin/Belle)/Labyrinth (Jareth/Sarah)/ Harry potter(Ginny/Tom)/ Game of thrones (Sansa/Petyr)/ The Mummy/The Mummy Returns (Imhotep/Evelyn)/ Phantom of The Opera (Phantom/Christine)]

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One thing to keep in mind is that you may always have had this orientation. There are many people who have romantic and sexual inclinations that don't always synch up. There's a lot of other stuff you have to deal with but this might not have actually been part of the baggage. We obviously don't know how differen't you'd be if your life was different, but we don't know how much it'd be the same either.

The other parts you've talked about are obviously more overtly detrimental. Trust issues, self doubt, low self esteem, none of these are unique. I don't say that to lessen your experience, but to remind you that you aren't alone.

You probably should talk about this with somebody. The fact you posted this shows that you do in fact want to talk to somebody. We don't know where you are but odds are good there is a therapist or a support group within your sphere of travel. Though a lot of support groups do tend to center around molestation by men, so you may not want to go to one without thorough research, as even if you find a group that you feel is accepting, you might find their experiences somewhat foreign to your own. Or maybe not, as I said, research.

I think you want to talk to somebody though. It may help you with the trust issues, which honestly is probably going to be the hardest thing of them all.I hope you are able to find peace and balance.

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