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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-25 07:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #2246


⌈ Secret Post #2246 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mighty Morphin Power Rangers]


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03.
[Downton Abbey]


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04.
[Death Note]


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05.
[Star Trek TNG]


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06.
[Girls]


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07.
[Vampire Diaries]


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08.
[My Little Pony: Friendship is magic]


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09.
[Spartacus]


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[CSI]


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11.
[The Bretts]


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12.
[Steam Powered Giraffe]


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13.
[Being Human]


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14.
[The Young Ones]


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15.
[God Bless America]


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16.
[Nerdfighteria]


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17.
[Downton Abbey]


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[Disney's hunchback of Notre dame (Frollo/Esmeralda)/Titanic (Cal/Rose)/Once Upon a Time (Rumpelstiltskin/Belle)/Labyrinth (Jareth/Sarah)/ Harry potter(Ginny/Tom)/ Game of thrones (Sansa/Petyr)/ The Mummy/The Mummy Returns (Imhotep/Evelyn)/ Phantom of The Opera (Phantom/Christine)]


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Re: Sexually abused as a child - help (pt2)

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-02-26 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry to hear that that happened to you, I really am not good at knowing how to respond to things like this without sounding flippant or condescending (at least in my mind) but what happened to you was obviously not your fault and you're very strong to be able to talk about it like this. You sound well-adjusted and the aversion to sexual desire is extremely common in people who have been sexually abused -- I know that knowing that doesn't help but it's something that other people who have been abused usually have to work through and I'm sure that in time you will, whether or not you choose to have sex in the future.

And yes, women can also be abusers and I wish that more people were aware of this. It's good that you shared your story in that respect.