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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-26 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2247 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2247 ⌋

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Re: (Not) Dating Advise

(Anonymous) 2013-02-27 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Man, that sucks. But it's hard to know what to tell you beyond that without more info. Did you try politely telling him you're not interested? Sometimes making up a boyfriend or girlfriend might work, if you think 'single and not looking' won't make him stop. Is he an underling or a boss or from a different department? Do you know anyone else who would back you up if you mentioned stalker dude to your boss or HR? I hope you manage to get him to leave you alone.

Re: (Not) Dating Advise

(Anonymous) 2013-02-27 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
I did, but it didn't seem to stick. I mean, it worked at first, like when I refused to give him my phone number the first time, but it's like he just... forgets or decides that I'll change my mind if he asks again later?

He did ask me if I was married, and I regret answering 'no' as that probably would've saved me this mess right up front. I could still say I have a significant other, because not married doesn't equal single, but I feel like I missed my chance to bring it up.

He's from a different department entirely, and he's not a boss/supervisor/in a position of management. We have completely different work schedules, which was why I was normally able to avoid him easily before. But now, if he even hears my voice, he comes looking for me.

I do have someone, a co-worker who warned me not to give out my cellphone number to him. She said he did the same thing to her... but there's still this fear that because I'm new, that if I cause drama, it may end badly for me.