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⌈ Secret Post #2249 ⌋

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[Otoyomegatari]

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[Girls und Panzer]

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[My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic]

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[Monster High]

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[My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]

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[Jackass 3D]

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[Paranatural]

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[Angelina Jolie]

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[Der Ring des Nibelungen]

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[Mary Shelley's Frankenhole]

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[Medium]

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[The Americans]

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[The Mindy Project]

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[5Dolls, T-ARA]

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[A Good Day To Die Hard]

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[Harry Potter]

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The only problem with that is I've seen others take this approach with him before, and he just gets even more hostile, and bears even worse of a grudge. One classmate who brushes off his attitude is at the moment being targeted as his "nemesis" (his words).

He's been behaving like this for the 4 months that I've known him. He's 43. This is an ingrained personality trait, and he is very persistent with his browbeating.

"nemesis"? lol jesus shit what the fuck, this dude

here is what i would do:
bring an opaque thermos to class and fill it with gin. whenever he speaks, take a small drink. the more he talks, the less you will care.

if that's not your thing, the only other thing i could think of in terms of interaction is being overly nice to him. if he wants hostile attention, he might not even know how to respond to a person being extremely polite and sweet.

out of curiosity, how long has the current "nemesis" been a nemesis??

Ahaha omg laughing so hard. I love this plan, except I would be an alcoholic by the end of the semester, cause he talks a fucking lot.

He's still hostile and combative toward people who are naturally sweet and nice. One of my friends in this program is the sweetest, most harmless girl you'd ever meet. This dude still is nasty and mean to her, when he was in her group last semester.

This nemesis has been a nemesis for I think one or two months. Like I said, he's persistent.

well, save the opaque thermos for a rainy day! it's gotten me through many a drawn-out art class. i am very obnoxious so i'd probably straight-up lay into his baby ass but in terms of avoiding conflict.... yikes.

you could try to get switched into a different group to lessen the brainhurt. you could also talk to the professor about how you think the classroom environment is too hostile, because it really is their job to at least somewhat mediate what's happening to facilitate discussion. i did that one time and the professor ended up asking me for advice on how to turn the situation around. it kind of worked. sort of. it's worth a shot!

Christ Almighty. It's like Youtube comments come to life. I've got a guy who frequently lays threats and slurs on my videos and channel, and blocking him only leads him to coming back on a new username. He's been doing this for years. My crime? Telling him off when he was doing it to a friend -- who he also has continued to harass.

Yeah, he's so ridiculously hostile that you wouldn't expect it in real life. One of my other groups mates has literally told him he's the angriest, most disagreeable person she's ever known, and he's the one holding up progress, and his response?

"No I'm not." And then proceeds to argue about why he's not disagreeable and hostile.

Just wanna fucking bang my head against a wall sometimes. He's so disrespectful to other people, when he whines so hard to get respect himself. He's cut me off so many times in the middle of sentences, while yelling at me and others when they do it to him.

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