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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-28 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2249 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2249 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Otoyomegatari]


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03.
[Girls und Panzer]


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04.
[My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic]


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[Monster High]


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[My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]


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07.
[Jackass 3D]


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[Paranatural]


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[Angelina Jolie]


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10.
[Der Ring des Nibelungen]


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[Mary Shelley's Frankenhole]


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[Medium]


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13.
[The Americans]


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14.
[The Mindy Project]


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[5Dolls, T-ARA]


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[A Good Day To Die Hard]


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[Harry Potter]



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18. http://i45.tinypic.com/2v0bjpd.jpg
[linked for porn, Spartacus: Vengeance]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 019 secrets from Secret Submission Post #321.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Hostile classmate- help?

[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2013-03-01 03:20 am (UTC)(link)
It's 10x more ridiculous because this is a graduate program. We all ought to be professionals by now.

This is kind of the approach I've been taking so far, but honestly maybe I need to amp it up to the next level and make it obvious. As in, when he's being deliberately abusive or pointlessly argumentative, whenever that is, get up and walk away, rather than sitting through it.

You mentioned the tangent questions, and you're absolutely right. He's kind of infamous for those, to the point where I watched a professor's eyes pop and he rocked back in his seat when my classmate was getting riled up and nasty about something OT.

Yeah, no, not excited at all. I'll talk to my groupmates about it, and if they think that having the professor take this guy aside and talk to him or relocate him would help, then I'll approach the prof.

Re: Hostile classmate- help?

(Anonymous) 2013-03-01 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Also? Document everything! Write down the times and dates of every incident and as objectively as you can the details of what happened, specifically how it impacted the ability to do your work. Don't put in long rants, just a timestamp, what was said or done, what he said or did, and the negative impact it had.

The prof might shrug it off, even if you go as a group. If you go to him as a group, with documentation (leave copies with the prof, NOT the originals), it will be harder for him to brush it off.

Re: Hostile classmate- help?

[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2013-03-01 03:49 am (UTC)(link)
I'll definitely keep this in mind. I don't want it to seem like I've been stalking the guy, though, because he already has these paranoid delusions about us "excluding him" from group work. When we're just not letting him make all the decisions?

But I guess this classmate throwing another tantrum in front of the professor might be just the thing to get the prof to separate us, so that might actually work.
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Re: Hostile classmate- help?

[personal profile] dethtoll 2013-03-01 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
If he's being excluded from group work it's because he is a colossal motherfucker who nobody wants to work with.

Re: Hostile classmate- help?

[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2013-03-01 04:16 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly! In fact we've been going out of our way to make sure he feels included, sending emails to BOTH of his accounts (that he never responds to), and making sure to divide up work so that he gets what he wants.

But somehow we're still excluding him. He stormed out in a huff before the prof was even done talking tonight, just to show his anger and disgust at getting away from us.