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fandomsecrets2013-03-01 07:05 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-01 07:05 pm
[ SECRET POST #2250 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2250 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Stan Lee]
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03.
[Pusher II]
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04.
[nigahiga]
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06.
[code lyoko evolution]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
10. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]
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11. [SPOILERS for Kuroko no Basket]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
12. [WARNING for rape]
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13. [WARNING for abuse]
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14. [WARNING for rape]
[SNSD/Girls' Generation]
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15. [WARNING for dub-con]
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16. [WARNING for sexual assault]
[One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #321.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Real secrets vs troll secrets
do you congratulate someone on getting through something like that? maybe it's just me, but when i go through something bad i tend to disregard perfunctory responses; dunno why, but it does nothing for me when, for example, people say they're sorry (fillintheblank) happened--i mean damn, so am i. it seems like anything i could write over the internet would come across as hollow and impersonal. if i had a similar experience to the OP i would try to commiserate, but since i haven't i feel like i would just wind up sounding like a hackneyed jackass.
Re: Real secrets vs troll secrets
(Anonymous) 2013-03-02 01:58 am (UTC)(link)I think with a lot of the serious secrets, the posters have lived so long in relative silence that opening up even to this extent is sort of a huge step. And having a relative lack of responses to opening up like that is kind of discouraging.
As someone who has posted secrets about crap from my past that have gotten few responses, sometimes it kind of makes me worried-- what if no one cared? What if they're disgusted with me, and with what I went through?
Yeah I know, in retrospect illogical, but what can I say.
Anyway, this isn't like a guilt trip to get you to respond, I just thought I'd also bring up the other side of the equation too.
Re: Real secrets vs troll secrets
i just doubt my ability to offer up anything substantial in these cases. why should someone on the internet want validation from me? i am not that great. and i am worried that i'll make things worse somehow, which i guess is contradictory and thus also illogical.
it isn't that people don't care, though. i hope that's not always the impression the op/anon gets in these types of situations, although i can see how it might be.