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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-02 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2251 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2251 ⌋

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HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-02 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
No, seriously. I'm kind of desperate.

Trans guy who could pass for a deep-voiced butch lesbian if I didn't squash my tits for a night, here, and I want to be fucked until I can't walk. Doesn't matter by whom, doesn't really matter where.

How the hell do "normal" people pick up one-night stands? Confidence helps, I've been able to make that work for me, but... my lack of a dick makes people suddenly back the hell off once they've realized they're grinding against the right place but nothing's there.

Should I be trying for the deep-voiced butch angle? Is that any more likely to succeed than attempting to pass myself off as male?

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-02 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, being entirely honest with yourself - how attractive would you say you are either as a man or woman?

Need that before I can give useful advice about the way to approach this.

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-02 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Since your trans, it'll probably be hard to find people up for it at any random bar (which you've mentioned) so maybe you can try a dating/hookup site that includes mention of beings trans and wanting a casual lay, or even dating sites specifically for trans people?
I feel your pain in wanting a one-night stand, I just don't have the looks or confidence to get it.

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-02 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Craigslist? There's a lot of needy people in there

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Don't wear a suit. Suits aren't casual.

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
They are if you accessorize correctly.

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
Adultfriendfinder.com?

Re: HOW DO CASUAL SEX??

(Anonymous) 2013-03-03 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
Casual sex is all about the actual anatomy when it's done between mostly strangers. If you're male but have a vagina, you'll have better luck looking for people interested in vaginas than people interested in men. That's just the cold hard fact of it, so yes, I would recommend the lesbian angle.