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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-04 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2253 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2253 ⌋

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ryttu3k: (Default)

Re: I don't think I will sleep well tonight...

[personal profile] ryttu3k 2013-03-05 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
You're the same person now as you will be in twelve hours - the only difference is that you may have a label to explain certain things. Trust me, getting a diagnosis is actually a pretty good thing - it's a way to go, "Oh, hey, I'm NOT a completely asocial maladjusted freak!", which is essentially how I saw myself throughout my entire childhood and adolescence.

Getting a diagnosis doesn't solve every problem, but it does let you know that you're not actually alone, that there are other people going through the same thing.

Re: I don't think I will sleep well tonight...

(Anonymous) 2013-03-05 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe they're scared they WON'T get the diagnosis...
ryttu3k: (Default)

Re: I don't think I will sleep well tonight...

[personal profile] ryttu3k 2013-03-05 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
...Oh, true...

Re: I don't think I will sleep well tonight...

(Anonymous) 2013-03-05 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
This is one reason my partner is terrified of therapy or even seeing doctors in general - he'd be fucking ecstatic to be told something was wrong and there's a reason for the problems he has, but being told that there's nothing wrong and he's just lazy and/or making it all up for attention? That would crush him. He's so scared of that possibility, however irrational it is, that even if he wasn't terrified of interacting with strangers in general or talking about himself, he'd still have a ridiculous time trying to bring himself to go. It's easier to live with, "maybe I really do have these issues," than, "the doctors say I'm completely healthy." A clean bill of health is only a good thing for somebody who feels healthy. For somebody who feels sick...it's awful. You don't want to be told that nothing is wrong when you know that something is.

Re: I don't think I will sleep well tonight...

(Anonymous) 2013-03-05 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
OP here. Yes. What if in fact I don't have Asperger's? What if I can't be helped after all?
charming_stranger: Himemiya Anthy from Adolescence of Utena. (Default)

Re: I don't think I will sleep well tonight...

[personal profile] charming_stranger 2013-03-05 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope they're able to help you, regardless of the test results.