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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-04 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2253 ]


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Re: Sometimes I feel like most parents only love their children because of biochemistry.

[personal profile] kluify 2013-03-05 04:58 am (UTC)(link)
Having read the other comments in this thread, it sounds like the type of parenting you're talking about seems to be people going through the motions of raising a child without actually engaging emotionally with them. Which to me sounds more like the result of social conditioning/ conforming to the expectations of what society expects of someone who has a child rather than any longlasting biochemical reaction. But that's kind of petty semantics in this context.

Anyway, I am lucky to say that I've never run into any such parenting myself - the bad parenting I've been acquainted from that approaches this has been the result of mental issues on the part of the parent (not talking about mine, btw). I also think it's very possible to deeply love your child and also be abusive towards them. So, um, yeah? Sorry for the word voomit x2, OP.