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[ SECRET POST #2254 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2254 ⌋

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I feel kinda stalker creepy about it, but does anyone else ever think about anons who have shown up here with problems and then don't ever seem to come back? You'd think they'd be out of sight out of mind, given that we all have, you know, our own lives and stuff.

But we've had anons struggling with addictions and disorders that I hope are doing OK now. There's Abortion Anon from a couple weeks ago, which reminded me of Depressed Dad After Miscarriage Anon from, like, a year ago (why do I remember this stuff?) and GF to BF Anon from a month or so ago.

I know there are more of you, but like I said I feel creepy enough as it is. So consider this, if you're cool with it, a check-in thread to let us know how you're doing.

I never left him.

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This just made my night! I also think of you two every now and then (personal history with a similar situation) and I hope you are both doing well.

Was there another anon with an FTM SO issue? Because I had a big ass thread about it and did not make the above comment. And in my case its not as cut and dried, sorry to rain on your parade.

We're still together, but I'm not ready to be talking in terms of "him" and "boyfriend," and I'm not sure how it's going to be once transitioning is able to go beyond looking kind of androgynous. Sometimes it's tough, but we're still clicking.

I almost wish we could just say goodbye to everyone we know (not all of them really know yet) and just go someplace brand new where we didn't know anybody and just see how things were, you know? But we can't, so we're in this eternal "so how it goes" loop.

I never said I was you. I made a thread about an abusive ci-gendered boyfriend, who everyone told me to dump a few months back. I stayed with him.

Huh, so you're bisexual/a lesbian who's girlfriend decided to get a sex change? Personally I could never date a FTM. I'd call the person 'him' or I'd say 'his' 'Mr', etc, basically I would consider the person a man, but I just...could never be in a romantic relationship with one.

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goodness, all the time

I also wonder what happened to some secret OPs (like the one who found a really disturbing story written by a friend describing how he wanted to kill a fictional character with OPs name, or the one who for a Christmas thing gave a girl who asked for Twilight another book)

but, yeah

I finally got up the nerve to talk to my parents. It turned out that I had a ridiculously low iron/ferratin (sp?) level (anything below 20 is bad; I had 8) and situational depression/stress. I'm taking iron supplements and saw a therapist for a little while, and am doing much better.

I always wanted to come back and thank the people who talked to me here, but I have no idea who they were, and it had been a while besides. So thank you, belatedly, especially one person whose icon is either Bruce Banner or a guy who looks a lot like him. :)

really glad to hear that!

Aww, yay! Glad things are going well for you; hopefully they continue to do so. :)

I'm the really depressed suicidal anorexic lesbian with homophobic parents from like a month ago
I keep thinking, 'I Should check in,' but then its really late at night and the comm's mostly dead.
I'm not dead although I got really really close to killing myself and my cutting's escalating in a big way but I'm not dead yet. Should I actually try and make a thread tomorrow? I don't want to bother y'all

Make a thread. We want to hear from you. It's not bothering us. I mean, I don't know, I come to this community to talk to the people who come to this community, and that includes people who have problems. And not to mention that it keeps people from worrying. Don't worry about bothering people, for Pete's sake, if there's anything you want to say or that we might be able to help with.

Wow, thank you so much! I'm sincerely touched.

I'm so glad you're still alive! I've thought about you and was worried that you had killed yourself. I am so so so glad you didn't.

Seconding that you should make a thread tomorrow. That is in no way bothering anyone and I know I'm not the only person who has been wondering how you're doing. One of the great things about this place is that we can reach out to each other and provide support and comfort. It sounds like you need that (forgive me if I'm being presumptuous; I'm projecting but I don't know how not to when it comes to depression, suicidal ideation, and self harm).

haha, thanks. I got pretty close but I never started doing it or anything.

I'll try, but my late class lets out at eight and in the comm's timezone that's about two in the morning so I might do it thursday.

Yeah, this is honestly one of the only places I've gotten to vent to. I don't really have anyone to talk to.
Don't worry about being presumptuous, I'd love any support you'd think I'd deserve. Sorry, I just don't usually think of myself as worth very much thought or trouble, I'm trying to not right now at least.

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:( I'm sorry that things aren't going any better but I'm glad you're still around and I third the suggestion that you should make a thread tomorrow. If for no other reason, to get things off your chest. (I know how helpful that can be.)

People will definitely be interested in hearing what you have to say and offering advice. Please try.

Its fine, don't worry about me. I was just whining and moaning.
I'll try my best to get back home in time tomorrow, though. If not then, Thusrday night.

Re: Problanons check in?

elaminator - 2013-03-06 05:47 (UTC) - Expand

It's nice to have you check in and let us know how you're going anon :)

okay.

FWIW some of us check F!S later on, and re-check the next morning to see if there are responses! So, even if it's late... you might still catch someone.

Please make a thread. <3

I'm definitely a problem anon, but I doubt if anyone remembers me. I talked some about my dead mother, and I had some health problems that a lot of people prompted me to get checked out, like loads of weight loss.

Hey, I remember you! Glad you got things checked out! How's everything else going your way?

Aw, I'm super touched you remembered. *hughug*

But uh... kind of not good? Nothing really got solved, and I had a trip to the ER for a convulsion, but otherwise I'm okay.

I think I remember you but just in case I didn't comment...I'm really sorry about your mother. *hugs*

You went to a doctor and they didn't find anything, or you haven't had the opportunity yet?

I always wonder about the anon who posted they were going to kill themself and just wanted to tell someone before doing it. They never checked in again that I know of

(i think it may have been around christmas or new year?)

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